CC Award Update

We got the award.

In an earlier post, I expressed some reservations about these big awards and the minimum spend required to achieve them. I still feel that, and my wife still feels that. We did drastically reduce our planned expenses. We don't like feeling incentivized to make big purchases.

But I still wanted the award for reasons I'll explain later, so I found a method of manufactured spending to make it work. There aren't many available to us Americans abroad, but there are some, and I took advantage.

The manufactured spend did cost something as a percentage of the spend, so it wasn't free. Basically, it's a cost for the accumulation of these points. I think it's better than buying a bunch of expensive stuff totaling $4000.

Why do it at all though? The basic calculation in my head was something like this: we are going to travel to the United States again at some point in the next two years, so therefore it's worth spending a little, to save much more later. The return is pretty good in this case (around $70 spent to save between $600-$1000 later). Even if I later eat the annual fee, the return is decent.

The reality is that we're going to visit family in the US at some point. It's important to both of us, and despite any savings goals we have, it's not worth sacrificing relationships or missing seeing child relatives grow up. Next summer we'll suffice with FaceTime, but the next year we'll almost certainly be heading back.

Or we'll help relatives who aren't as financially well off come visit us. It is much cheaper for us to pay to fly someone here, than for both of us to fly to the US and find accommodation and transportation.

Will we do this again? Maybe. I'm looking at other card award possibilities, but the trouble with manufactured spending is that it's kind of skirting the rules. I prefer to draw as little attention to myself as possible regarding my American financial accounts, and manufactured spending can open me up to closer inspection. I might do this with another similar card and then focus on things like hotel cards that provide free nights automatically. Since hotel costs were a high proportion of our last visit, cutting down on that would be worthwhile.

Or maybe I won't. I could just continue to add points to this card that I have and otherwise use normal German payment methods to get by. Germany doesn't have the same glut of strategies that the US has, but it has a few, and those might be enough to both satisfy the points accumulating itch and to keep things simple.

Churning Isn't Worth it for Us

After talking with my wife, we're going to back off on the card churning/travel-hacking thing. When we spoke, she was totally in alignment with me and expressed similar concerns that I mention below.

Sometimes you have to just admit that something isn't worth it. We're trying to build a deep savings habit. Habits take time and effort, and credit card rewards disrupt the savings habit.

Encouraged Spending

I found myself looking for things to spend money on. If I'd ever had a thought floating in my mind soup about something I'd like to buy, I began telling myself that I'd planned buying it all along. Now was indeed the time to do it since we had the new card. That way I could get to the end of the process and say, "We only spent money we meant to," even though it probably wasn't true.

I want to think about ways of saving money rather than spending money, and I don't want to think that spending comes with big rewards. 

Expensive Thinking

I found myself angling for more expensive solutions than I'd otherwise accept in order to meet the minimum spend. Every purchase was anchored to the number $4000. I reserved a hotel for a lot more money than I would if I'd purchased it with my normal credit card. I looked at brand new high-end products when used or otherwise less expensive items would meet our needs.

Luxury Dependence

These high end credit cards are trying to get us used to the idea of luxury, and luxury is a weakness. Airport lounges, high-end hotels, first-class airplane tickets, speedy security checks, elite status, and metal cards are all nice, but they clearly want the card user to become accustomed and dependent on these niceties.

I don't want to feel like I'm entitled to that stuff. One day these cards might not be so generous with their perks, but the luxury dependance would likely remain. And then you're trapped. 

Points Aren't True Assets

Points are kind of like assets, but not really. The issuing company can change the rules whenever they want. The airlines can jack up their fuel surcharges. The points accumulate no income, and their value doesn't appreciate with time. As far as I can tell, there are no laws protecting you as a points holder.

If we spend a bunch of money now to get the bonus within the next month, we'd be spending today's money in order to save money potentially about a year from now. That's putting lot of faith that the points will be worth something then, and it's a lot of faith that the money that I could have saved today couldn't have been used in a better way. 

Stress

It was causing me stress, and that sucks. I don't want to resent my wife if she didn't put some spend on the card. I don't want my afternoon ruined if the card machine at the grocery store doesn't work. I don't want to call American banks more often than I usually have do, which for the past few years has been never. And I hated the buyer's remorse that came with buying expensive stuff.

I've always prided myself on avoiding unnecessary stress traps, and this project was becoming one. 

The moment where this really hit me is when I did our monthly net worth calculation, and I saw that it had dropped in a month where our stock performance beat the market. Additionally, I knew that it would continue to drop as we fulfilled the minimum spend over the next two months. Meanwhile, there were great deals in the stock market if only I could get some cash in to buy them. But no cash was coming. 

We got a couple awards from less ambitious cards, and maybe I'll do some of those in the future. But for the bigger cards, we just don't spend the kind of money that justifies trying to churn them. And to spend that money means forgoing buying real assets now that could be worth much more than the credit card points are next year. 

Anyway, that's my thinking. I'll write more about rewards and stuff, but for now, they're nice but not worth sacrificing real saving for. 

Post-Vacation Deprogramming

Since our last vacation, I've been going through bouts of thinking something was financially logical only to doubt myself. I mentioned before my ambivalence about credit card reward hacking, and that's continued. But moreover, I'm looking at all sorts of decisions before and since the vacation that are just puzzling, and I have to conclude that vacations of the modern variety are enormous mental and money traps if you're not exceedingly careful.

For example, social media is a vast reinforcement mechanism for what is normal and expected. Professionally and personally, I am surrounded by people who take fairly extravagant vacations and share them to social media. Moreover, the photography surrounding the vacations is rapidly improving, making personal vacations closely resemble advertisements.

As for advertisements, has anybody else noticed that YouTube can start to resemble ads for ads for ads? It's like ads all the way down. We watch ads before we watch our nicer more interesting ads. Whether it be for trailers, or makeup, or electronics, or just about anything else, it's easy to get sucked into a perpetual ad whirlpool.

Two realties that present real traps for me and my wife:

• We live far away from our broader families. 
• We live in the tourism capital of the world (Europe, broadly speaking). 

That makes taking some kind of vacation or extended travel somewhat inevitable. We can be careful, and we have been more careful in the past, but right now, I feel like something is off in my thinking and planning. 

Credit Card Award Beginner

Over the summer, while making several US trips, I managed to score a few credit card awards. These were the easy to achieve kind: spend $500 in three months and get back around $150.

In August, I might have bit off more than I can chew. I went for one of the big mid-tier cards that offer you a bunch of points for $4000 spend in three months. It has no foreign transaction fees, so I can stick a lot of our local transactions on the card. That's no problem.

But despite some lofty goals, I'm finding it hard to spend the money. First, there's a lag between being approved for the card and its arrival abroad. In that time, some spending has to happen just to eat, so that spend doesn't count towards the reward, though the clock had started ticking on the 90 days.

Second, there are few good options for manufactured spend in Germany. Those Visa cards you can load up in the U.S. don't really exist in the same way here. There's no Plastiq, so rent and a bunch of other bills happen directly from our normal bank account.

One of the rules I set for this project was to not spend extraneous money that we otherwise would not have spent. One the one hand, we haven't gone out and bought a bunch of crazy extra stuff. No new computers or cell phones.

The stuff we planned to buy that would have helped us cross the spending threshold keep getting cheaper the longer we plan. For example, we planned to put a bunch of next summer's U.S. trip on the card, but we determined that a trip would be too expensive, so we chucked that. We planned on buying a nice couch, but even with the reward, we find couches too expensive and keep finding acceptable couches at lower price points. We are taking a brief vacation on one of my long weekends, but with low-cost airlines in Europe, it just wasn't that expensive. And we planned on doing some nice-ish things for the apartment, but short of a full kitchen overhaul, we can't stand spending the money.

And some of the more outlandish ideas, such as buying a new iPhone, get snuffed out mentally before they have much gestation time.

On the other hand, we wouldn't have done even this amount of spending without the card, so it's encouraged us to open our wallets more than we otherwise would have. The couch we have is an eyesore, but it's functional. The apartment improvements could have waited. The small trip could have been even smaller.

I've been forced to update how we budget, which adds complication. It's much harder now to get a big picture idea of how well we're managing money since a budgeted item happens this month but the actual paying for it happens next month or later. I've developed some new systems, but what used to be simple is now more complex, and I believe complexity makes overspending more likely.

I keep coming back to one thing: the reward is worth between $600-$1000 depending on how well it's used. But if you don't spend any money at all, then such a reward pales in comparison to the value saved.

I've been going back to some of my favorite sources for financial inspiration, and some of my spending ideas feel more suspect. For example, I thought of front-loading our mobile prepaid amounts for the next year. But now I'm wondering if I even really need a mobile phone. I have some internet services that I use. I could prepay them... or I could cancel them and just keep the money.

I'm not certain if I'll do any of those things, but I'm considering it. So there's a kind of mental battle between my desire to try churning out of curiosity, my default frugal side, my radical frugal side that wants to move into a studio apartment and sell our furniture and use the library's internet, a certain amount of sunk cost fallacy lurking in the background, and my desire for the stuff we're going to buy.

I know an American family here that churns U.S. credit cards successfully, but I have no idea what their budget looks like, and I believe that they have willing helpers in the US who spend on the card on their behalf. I'm not so trusting as to give any of my family my credit card, so that avenue is not open to us.

At the very least, I doubt I'll do this again any time soon no matter how it turns out. It really doesn't appear practical for us.